Man, this is the Mega Edition. Too much cool stuff in one week!
I learned that avoiding suffering is not the path to happiness and how to learn from it instead.
I read the 56 worst most smart-ass analogies used in high school papers and laughed my ass off.
I saw a sweet, beautiful story in art.
I learned that scientists have finally created a parthenogenic lizard species in the lab via hybridization. Sweet!
I howled at the best obnoxious responses to misspellings on Facebook. Oh, god, guys, I died.
I learned that being allowed to struggle is a kindness and a necessity, as it is how we learn and grow best.
I read about some authors’ lessons learned from master worldbuilders.
I learned that being “cool” can be like wearing an emotional straightjacket.
I saw an incredibly beautiful, inspiring image-story on artistic evolution – you’ve got to see this, guys.
I learned that there are two kinds of asking why – the gentle, exploratory kind and the accusatory, perfectionist kind.
I read about best practices for beta readers and was relieved that I seem to be doin’ it right.
I learned how to live deeper, not busier.
I read a beautiful, brilliant post on self-wisdoms.
I learned the importance of a really good wallow (and a really good metaphor).
I learned that Camp NaNoWriMo is coming this summer! NaNoWriMo! In the summer! I squeed.
I was reminded that decompressing between actions is just as important as the actions themselves, and I wish more people practiced this.
And your Friday photo is from my yard, taken yesterday:

Oh my god, it WAS a good week. Look at all these treasures!
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I know. I am so pleased with the collection! So many awesome people writing great things. :D
I laughed so damn hard at the FB one. I remember why I left. Have I told you lately how much I appreciate your spelling precision? (also the best one was: “*you’re, as in you’re making this too easy for me.” That person shall be made a peer of the realm.)
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The “*you’re, as in you’re making this too easy for me.” one was painfully hilarious. I just. I don’t even know. I’m so glad I ignore FB.
I’m glad you appreciate my precision! Just today, I was threatening J with a wok in the name of that precision. I am a grammar crusader! Hopefully a not-totally-obnoxious one. I still feel bad when I have to point out a mistake in a professional document/venue.
Oh, sheesh! And thank you for including me, too! I’m chuffed, friend.
Chuffed! I have learned a new word today. :D
You’re very welcome – thank you for writing such an excellent post!
Thanks for sharing the Brene Brown piece on being cool. I agree with it sooo very much. Even as somebody who explicitly aims for “different” instead of “cool”, I sometimes find myself wanting people to think the way I act is cool. And then I remind myself how much I love all my friends who are silly and fun, and I (hopefully) snap out of it.
I love that post. It goes beyond giving permission to be uncool and actually encourages it, which is great.
I find myself falling into the “quick, look untouchable!” mindset quite a lot. But, when excited, I am a completely dorky goofball. It’s an interesting switch to throw, that’s for sure. I’m trying not to look “cool” for cool’s sake, but I’m also not resisting the urge to be somewhat distant and impassive when I honestly feel like it. Just being me, you know?